{"id":1022,"date":"2011-07-20T19:30:35","date_gmt":"2011-07-20T19:30:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.durhamfriendsmeeting.org\/?p=1022"},"modified":"2011-07-20T19:31:26","modified_gmt":"2011-07-20T19:31:26","slug":"society-of-friends-family-tree","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.durhamfriendsmeeting.org\/?p=1022","title":{"rendered":"Society of Friends Family Tree"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From our Pastor, Daphne Clement<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>\u201cI would like to see us (the Religious Society of Friends) turn our family tree upside down,\u201d I said. \u00a0And Margaret Cooley, Director of Woolman Hill, immediately saw what I was envisioning and responded: \u201cThe branches would then be our roots.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn1\">[1]<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Our family tree turned upside down?\u00a0 The branches now the roots?\u00a0 If this were so, would it mean that Friends have learned from the mistakes of the past?\u00a0 This version of the Family Tree would surely portray a mature Society of Friends in which real Christian love of God, of the Light and of each other would help us to be tolerant and respectful of difference.<\/p>\n<p>Here in New England where so much of American Quaker history originated, we have had lots of opportunities to practice and nurture this sort of tolerance and love of each other; throughout our 350 year history, we have at times done this well \u2026 and at other points, when it came to bearing with diversity among Friends \u2026 we fell quite short \u2026 short on Love.\u00a0 The problems among us have reflected the larger human condition and are illustrative of how we humans tend to think and act when we are not centered in the Light.<\/p>\n<p>It is so easy to be swept up in controversy and be swayed by the warmth of emotion generated by strong opinion.\u00a0 It is the real work of elders and ministers in the face of such controversy to hold fast to the Light \u2026 allowing the Light to transform and make room for a potential \u201cnew thing\u201d to be wrought among us.<\/p>\n<p>I propose to you that since George Fox abolished the laity \u2026 making us truly the \u201cpriesthood of all believers\u201d \u2026 we are all ministers.\u00a0 And because we Friends are all ministers now, this is our task: To trust in Light of God and in the awesome diversity of God\u2019s creation, knowing that really, there are as many ways to worship as there are people.\u00a0 And because we know this, let us join together, as kindred: Friends General Conference (FGC), Friends United Meeting (FUM), Evangelical Friends International (EFI), Conservative, Independent, Programmed and Un-programmed \u2026 let us value each other \u2026 let us love each other \u2026 letting go of divisive judgment\u00a0 \u2026 let us turn our family tree upside down.\u00a0 <strong> <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<div>\n<hr size=\"1\" \/>\n<div>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a> Several weeks ago we, the Durham Friends Meeting, hosted a Woolman Hill Board Meeting. 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