{"id":6199,"date":"2023-07-31T10:14:53","date_gmt":"2023-07-31T14:14:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.durhamfriendsmeeting.org\/?p=6199"},"modified":"2023-07-31T10:14:55","modified_gmt":"2023-07-31T14:14:55","slug":"recognizing-and-appreciating-by-richard-rohr","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.durhamfriendsmeeting.org\/?p=6199","title":{"rendered":"“Recognizing and Appreciating,” by Richard Rohr"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

In opening worship on July 30 at Durham Friends Meeting, Wendy Schlotterbeck read this meditation from Richard Rohr, posted on the website of the Center for Action and Contemplation<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Recognizing and Appreciating, by Richard Rohr<\/a><\/h1>\n\n\n\n

Thursday, July 27, 2023<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Contemplation is a kind of seeing that is much more than mere looking because it also includes\u00a0recognizing\u00a0<\/em>and thus\u00a0appreciating.\u00a0<\/em>The contemplative mind does not tell us\u00a0what\u00a0<\/em>to see but teaches us\u00a0how\u00a0<\/em>to see what we behold.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But how do we learn this contemplative mind, this deep, mysterious, and life-giving way of seeing and of being with reality? Why does it not come naturally to us? Actually, it does come momentarily <\/em>in states of great love and great suffering, but such wide-eyed seeing normally does not last. We return quickly to dualistic analysis and use our judgments to retake control. A prayer practice\u2014contemplation\u2014is simply a way of maintaining the fruits of great love and great suffering over the long haul and in different situations. <\/em>And that takes a lot of practice\u2014in fact, our whole life becomes one continual practice.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

To begin to see with new eyes, we must observe, and usually be humiliated by, the habitual way we encounter each and every moment. It is humiliating because we will see that we are well-practiced in just a few predictable responses. Few of our responses are original, fresh, or naturally respectful of what is right in front of us. The most common human responses to a new moment are mistrust, cynicism, fear, knee-jerk reactions, a spirit of dismissal, and overriding judgmentalism. It is so dis-couraging <\/em>when we have the courage <\/em>to finally see that these are the common ways the ego tries to be in control of the data\u2014instead of allowing the moment to get some control over us and teach us something new! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

To let the moment teach us, we must allow ourselves to be at least slightly stunned<\/em> by it until it draws us inward and upward toward a subtle experience of wonder. We normally need a single moment of gratuitous awe to get us started. [1] <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In her book on spirituality and parenting, Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg emphasizes the special awe that arises from paying attention to our ordinary lives: <\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The twentieth-century rabbi and theologian Abraham Joshua Heschel [1907\u20131972] wrote a lot about \u201cradical amazement,\u201d [2] that sense of \u201cwow\u201d about the world, which he claimed is the root of spirituality. It\u2019s the kind of thing that people often experience in nature\u2014at the proverbial mountaintop, when walking in the woods, seeing a gorgeous view of the ocean. But it\u2019s also, I think, about bringing that sense of awe into the little things we often take for granted, or consider part of the background of our lives. This includes the flowers on the side of the road; the taste of ice cream in our mouths; \u2026 or to find a really,\u00a0really<\/em>\u00a0good stick on the ground. And it also includes things we generally don\u2019t even think of as pleasures, like the warm soapy water on our hands as we wash dishes. [3]\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

References:<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

[1] Adapted from Richard Rohr, Just This<\/a> <\/em>(Albuquerque, NM: CAC Publishing, 2017), 7\u20139. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

[2] Abraham Joshua Heschel, God in Search of Man: A Philosophy of Judaism <\/em>(New York: Macmillan, 1976), chap. 4. Cited by Ruttenberg, Nurture the W0w, <\/em>293. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

[3] Danya Ruttenberg,\u00a0Nurture the Wow: Finding Spirituality in the Frustration, Boredom, Tears, Poop, Desperation, Wonder, and Radical Amazement of Parenting<\/em>\u00a0(New York: Flatiron Books, 2016), 56\u201357.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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