Please wear your nametags!

By Ministry & Counsel
We have new attenders and visitors who don’t know all our names. Out of courtesy to them, and any forgetful regulars, please wear your nametag at Meeting. Some of you have already made them. They are in a box or basket on the shelf in the entryway. If you don’t already have one, or have forgotten it at home, there are blank nametags in the basket, so you make yourself one.
The Meeting thanks for your help!

An Invitation from the Parsonage

Creativity is a gift of the Spirit!  And what is it that inspires us to create?  The beauty of God’s creation; the love between us; a light heart; something funny or tender or even tragic … here is the sacred in our ordinary lives.  Let us give voice to this, or capture it with your camera, your palette and your brush.

George Fox asked: “And what cans’t thou say?” and so does your Newsletter Committee.

Daphne Clement

September Newsletter

Dear Durham Meeting Friends,

In August we will not meet for Monthly Meeting and Woman’s Society enjoys an “Eat Out” together, so their report will be short.  Because we will have an unusual amount of free space in the September newsletter, the Pastor and Newsletter Committee invite you, young and not so, member or not, to submit your original creations: works of art, photos, poems, short prose, lyrics that express faith or beauty, i.e. appreciation of the natural world, Spirit in your lives.  Here is an opportunity; please join us in Durham Friends Creative Newsletter Issue.  Artwork and photos need to be in jpeg format, high resolution would be best.  For written content, it is lovely if it can come in some version of Word.  Instead of either above, we can scan anything flat up to 8½”X11” but no slides.  Dropping art or written work into an envelope works.  The bottom line is to get it to us any way you can.  We’ll take care of the rest and will return your treasure to you.  Please submit your creative piece to arrive by Sunday, August 21st to:

In person: Jo-an Jacobus or Daphne Clement,

Via mail: Jo-an, 65 Preble Rd #18, Bowdoinham 04008; or Daphne, 848 Pinkham Brook Rd, Durham 043222

Or via email: mjo.anjacobus@gmail.com; or clement.daphne@gmail.com.

Just can’t wait to see what you’ll be sending in.

The Newsletter Committee

 

Kakamega Update: July 2011

By Sukie Rice

I will be leaving for Kenya July 27, and am excited about this year’s trip.  We have a great group of 14 adults and youth going, all ready for adventure.  We’re carrying 30 storage bins of children’s clothing, gifts, art supplies sports equipment, sheets and towels.  I am excited that this year we are bringing 258 fleece jackets and all the children will have a jacket now to keep them warm, thanks to all the sponsors,

Although the project was begun with a focus on the Care Centre, the High School portion of the Care Centre has steadily grown from three students in the first year to 58 this year.  Please read the report and know that, without sponsorships, the boys would be in despair as to what to do with themselves and the girls would be pregnant by 16, with or without a young man to take care of them and their baby.

DFM Sends Aid to Brunswick UU Church

At the July Monthly Meeting we decided to send $1,200 to the Brunswick Unitarian Universalist Church to help the rebuilding of their church following the fire on June 6th that destroyed the entire rear of the sanctuary.  We also discussed that Friends be invited to contribute to that endeavor.  If you are so  moved, donations may be mailed to:

Unitarian Universalist Association,

Northern New England District,

Brunswick Fire Fund,

10 Ferry Street #318,

Concord, NH 03301.

To donate online, http://uuworld.org/news/articles/184523.shtml

For more information, please see:

http://www.nned.uua.org/

From Wayne

As we can see from Tess Marstaller’s article, she is doing marvelous work in Africa.  The package we sent was well received and my understanding is that we will probably try to send another.  Please speak to Nancy Marstaller concerning future needs.

Rally Day: Sunday, September 11

By Wendy Schlotterbeck

Rally Day marks the beginning of the new year for Children and Youth activities at Durham.  Activities start early on Rally Sunday with the kid-chefs cooking up breakfast for the meeting.  Come join us right from the start of our new year.

Breakfast creation 8:45 AM – kids who like to cook, come help!!

Breakfast 9:30 AM Open to all

Program 10:00 Come learn what’s happening in Christian Education

Meeting for Worship 10:25 – Inter-generational, kid friendly service – no Sunday School.

Schedule 2011 – 2012:

This year we will have three age groups meeting on different Sundays.

As usual, childcare will be provided for babies and toddlers.

Elementary Grades (preschool age through grade five) meet 1st and 3rd Sundays beginning at 10:25 AM.  We will be using the Godly Play curriculum.

The middle school age group (grades six – eight or nine) will meet 2nd and 4th Sundays beginning at 10:25am.  The curriculum will be announced shortly.

Passages, the high school group, will meet 1st and 3rd Sundays, beginning at 10:15 AM.

After September 11th, the regular Sunday School schedule begins:

September 18: Godly Play and Passages

September 25: Middle School

Events and Newsletter Delivery

By Jo-an Jacobus, Editor

As editor of our newsletter, some things have become clear to me as I work with Wayne to get the newsletter to you in a timely manner.

The most obvious to me is I can’t guarantee you will receive the information about events happening during the first week of the month before they occur.  The turn-around time after monthly meeting is just too short.  It is a virtual certainty that the paper copies will not have arrived until late in the first week of the month.  It is tight in some months for the email version as well.

The most important area of clarity involves a positive step that can be taken by those submitting articles concerning upcoming events.  Tell us in advance.  Put an October event into September’s newsletter.  Even if your event is in late October, September is better.  Send it to us early, at least a month early.  Get the news in a month early to be sure Friends can attend your event.

Another positive step for those submitting articles is not new but bears repeating.  Please get your articles to me by 5 P.M. on the Wednesday following monthly meeting.  If I don’t have it by then, it won’t go in.

My last thoughts on hearing about upcoming events in a timely manner I have said before but it does make a difference.  If you want to receive your newsletter in time to see notices about events occurring in the first week of the month, email is the way to go.  This might not be an issue for you.  If it is, I’m doing everything I can to get it to you on time.  Once the newsletter is in final copy, that’s the end for the email edition but only the beginning for a paper version.  It must be copied, collated, prepared for mailing, and go through the US Mail.

I spoke with a Durham (F)friend this week who was very upset with the quality of the photographs in the paper copy of the newsletter.  This friend felt the photos weren’t worth printing, although having seen them once online thought those were terrific.  This friend is adding email delivery to paper delivery, wanting to see the lovely photos but still wanting to have a copy to hold.  A “twofer” that works for one friend: early news with great photos and paper to hold.

July Refreshments

3              Kitsie Hildebrandt, Clarabel Marstaller

10           Glenice Hutchins & Al Anderson
17           Brenda Masse, Wayne Hollingworth
24           Dotty DeLoach, Don Goodrich
31           Sukie Rice, Susan Wood

Boxes for Earthquake and Tsunami Relief in Japan

By Ann Ruthsdottir

I sent two boxes to the relief project for Japan.  After I took all the packaging off (mostly around tooth paste), I was able to tightly pack all of the generous offerings into 1.75 boxes.  I filled the last quarter box by adding a small, child-safe wooden toy, a small baby quilt and some wash clothes.  I used wash clothes for packing material.  Everything in the boxes could be of use.

Thank you all for your wonderful offerings to a people who have been harmed in so many ways.

Adulty Sunday School Class Study

By Clarabel Marstaller

The Adult Sunday School class has just finished its consideration of a Pendle Hill pamphlet by Bill Taber on “Four Doors to Worship.”

On Sunday, June 26, we will begin a study of an article from each of three issues of “Quaker Life,” on Friends Peace Testimony, Friends Testimony on Integrity, and Friends and Authority.

The Adult Sunday School class meets from 9:30 to 10:20 on Sunday mornings, in the Christian Education room.  Join us!

Special Children’s Day Offering

By Clarabel Marstaller for the Christian Education Committee

Sunday, June 12, is Children’s Day with meeting for worship and special events to show appreciation for our children.  A second offering will be taken during meeting for worship which will go to the Youth and Children’s Project of the United Society of Friends Women International.  That project supports three ministries helping young people:

1.  Children and Youth programs at three Friends Indian Centers–MOWA Choctaw in Alabama, Kickapoo in Oklahoma, and Mesquakie in Iowa.

2.  Eli and Sibyl Jones scholarships for the Friends Schools in Ramallah.

3.  Support for girls’ education in Turkana, Kenya.

Please help us make these programs come alive in all three areas.  Thank you!

Thanks!

By Jo-an Jacobus

Durham Monthly Meeting of Friends (DMM) has received two donations of computers.  Thank you to both donors.

Kitsie Hildebrandt as Treasurer will use the first computer donated by John Curtis A laptop it can be used at Kitsie’s home to prepare reports and also brought to Monthly Meeting so she is able to answer questions about the meeting’s finances.

The second donated computer came from Sarah Sprogell.  Bobbie Jordan bought it not long before she passed away.  Sarah felt the meeting would be a good home for this computer.  It is also a laptop which allows Jo-an Jacobus to do the newsletter and website work on a computer dedicated to DMM of Friends.

Care package for Cameroon

By Angie Reed

Tess Marstaller is currently serving in Tombel, Cameroon as a Peace Corp Volunteer.  She has asked the Woman’s Society and Durham Meeting of Friends to put together a care package for the children she works with.  Woman’s Society will collect items from now until Father’s Day in the box next to the piano in the Gathering Space at Meeting. The box will be small so keep that in mind when planning donations.

Items Requested:

Jump ropes (large ones held by 2 people are best), a tie-dye kit (colors, no shirts), shiny prize items to be used in a summer camp setting and as educational prizes, such as stickers or pens. Also books of stories, games, theater sequences (especially of a Christian nature), other camp type games, and fixin’s for s’mores. Items with a Christian theme are especially well received.  For more information, check out Tess’s Blog at   tessincameroon.blogspot.com   Thank you.

Meetinghouse now has phone service

By Jo-an Jacobus

Durham Monthly Meeting has had local landline phone service installed in the meetinghouse.  Because of the difficulty with cell phone reception on the property, the number of evening events and to deal with possible medical emergencies, the meeting decided it needs to have local phone service in the building.

The phone number is 207.725.0411.

Currently, there is a phone on loan to the meeting. However we need a permanent replacement.  A corded phone would be best in case the power goes out.  If you have a corded phone, not wireless, that you would like to donate to the meeting, please contact Jo-an Jacobus at 666.3213 or jacobusj@gwi.net .

Having phone service means we will now be listed in both the white and yellow pages of the Brunswick phone book.  The listing will read Durham Meeting of Friends.

Yard Sale 2011 in May 28

By Angie Reed

The Annual Woman’s Society Yard Sale will be Saturday, May 28, 8-1. This is Memorial Day weekend, and please plan to share some time with us that weekend. Remember, please save your “yard sale” items to donate.  They can be dropped off at the meetinghouse no earlier than Sunday, May15. Plants can be dropped off up to the morning of the sale. Plant pots are available in the vestry and horse shed. Unsold donated items larger than a small microwave are the responsibility of the donor and must be removed if unsold. Volunteer sign-up sheets are up.  Sorting and pricing will take place during the week before (see sign up sheet for times). Sign up now for your favorite volunteer spots.

Youth and Children’s Activities April-August

Sunday School classes for ages 3-13,

During Meeting for Worship

May 1        Jesus and the 12
May 15      Paul’s Discovery
June 5        Plan for Children’s Day
June 12      Children’s Day – an All Meeting picnic at the Meetinghouse following worship, everyone is invited.

 

Passages for teens in high school,

Second and fourth Sundays, 10:15am

May 8        CO Movie and discussion
May 22      Special Guest and last Passages Meeting until September

After Meeting Refreshments Schedule

May 2011 THROUGH July 2011

May

1          Sue Wood, Dorothy Curtis
8          Nancy Marstaller, Clarabel Marstaller
15        Betsy Stivers & family
22        David & Kathy Brown
29        Sarah Sprogell, Leslie Manning
June

4          Linda Muller & Jim McCarthy
12        Bee Douglas, Nancy Marstaller, Jo-an Jacobus
19        Helen Clarkson, Julie Krejsa
26        Margaret Wentworth,

Phyllis Wetherell

July

3          Kitsie Hildebrandt, Clarabel Marstaller
10        Glenice Hutchins & Al Anderson
17        Brenda Masse, Wayne llingworth
24        Dotty DeLoach, Don Goodrich
31        Sukie Rice, Susan Wood

Wanted:

Pastor would like to borrow a garden cart or wheelbarrow for a few weeks for parsonage yard spring-cleaning.

Please call Daphne Clement at 353-6354.

Invitation from the Pastor: Join Adult Sunday School to read Four Doors for Worship

Beginning May 1st – 9:30AM

During the month of May we will read Bill Tabor’s Pendle Hill Pamphlet Four Doors for Worship at Sunday School, please join us.

Synopsis This essay describes four doors as thresholds into the heart of worship.

About the Author William Taber (1927-2005) grew up in Ohio Yearly Meeting (Conservative). He taught at Olney Friends School for twenty years, and at the Pennington Boys and Moses Brown Schools. He later taught Quaker history, practice and spirituality at Pendle Hill. Ohio Yearly Meeting recognized Bill Taber’s gifts in the ministry in 1966. These gifts centered on his ability to translate spiritual experience into everyday

A newsletter delivery request

By Jo-an Jacobus

A few newsletter readers have swapped their delivery method from paper to email.  Thank you for your willingness to make the changeover.  We are hoping that even more people will want change in the near future.  Would you switch today?  You could have a part in shrinking the deficit in Durham Friends Meeting’s budget for this year.  If you decide you’d like to help the meeting in this way, please drop us a note at the return address on the newsletter, call 207.666.3213 or email jacobusj@gwi.net to let us know you’d like to switch. The meeting would appreciate your help.

Support LACO: Eat Pasta

On Saturday, May 21st Lisbon Area Christian Outreach (LACO) is holding a fund raising dinner at Holy Trinity Parish, 67 Frost Hill Avenue, Lisbon Falls.  From 5 – 7 they will be serving an “All You Can Eat” spaghetti and lasagna dinner.  The price of admission for one is $5.00 for those age 12 and up, $2.50 for children and children under 6 years of age eat for free.  The proceeds will support LACO’s Food Bank and Clothing Pantry.  Hope to see you there.

Easter Pie Sale

By Angie Reed

Orders are currently being taken for pies of all types to be distributed Easter Sunday morning.  Pies will be sold for a suggested donation of $15.00. To order please contact Theresa Oleksiw at either 449-0700, or 865-6495. Types of pies available for order include Pecan, Apple-berry, Chocolate Cream, Banana Cream, or Blueberry. Other types of pie may be available upon request.  This is a Woman’s Society fundraiser, and a portion of these funds will be earmarked for the Adopt-a-Nurse program.