
NEYM to Hold Visioning Day for Quarterly Meetings, April 11, 2026, Haverhill, MA


Falmouth Quarter will meet in person and on zoom on January 24th at Portland Friends Meeting from 9:30 until about 3:00. Here’s the zoom link.
The theme for the day is Expanding the Commons – working with the abundance in our communities. You are invited to come, and to bring a friend.
· Doug Gwynn will join us and will start the day by sharing an understanding of what we mean by the Commons today.
· During the morning Wendy Schlotterback will share her story of bringing a new Mainer home from ICE detention in Brownsville Texas, highlighting the resources shared by the community which made this possible.
· Lunch – soup augmented by whatever you might bring
· After lunch, Andy Grannall will share a story of the community’s response to the needs of the grounds keeper at Portland Friends Meeting.
· Informed by these stories, we will explore who are we in the commons with? What do we possess that is for the community (our privilege, … our communities, our knowledge)? What do you need?
The theme arose from a concern raised at the October Quarterly Meeting about strengthening the mutual aid in our communities as we are impacted by current events. As we held this concern, we recognized that we are both givers and receivers of care. We all have gifts to offer as well as moments when we need support, and we value each of those exchanges on equal ground. And We expect messiness, confusion, and discomfort, and we also choose courage and trust. This led us to reframe the concern to focus on the Commons.
The schedule will be
Falmouth Quarter will meet on October 25th from 9:30 – 3:30 at Durham Meeting Meeting (or by zoom, link password 1775). We invite you to come and share about the life and spirit in your meetings. Our hope is that our entire time together is a time of worship, with laughter, business, connections and fellowship. All are welcome.
We invite you to come and share about the life and spirit in your meetings. Our hope is that our entire time together is a time of worship, with laughter, business, connections and fellowship. All are welcome.
The schedule for our time together is:
· 9:30 gather
· 10:00 Meeting for business – agenda at end of this announcement
· 12:00 break, brown bag lunch – there is a stove, microwave and tea kettle in the kitchen.
· 1:00 Afternoon program:
Description of the afternoon program:
“Rekindle the gift of God that is in you… for God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control” (2 Tim 1:6-7). “Behold I will do a new thing” Isaiah 43:19
We are living in different times, do we have the what we need now? How can we find our spiritual bearings in the face of the institutional cruelty locally, nationally and internationally? What is the Truth that is needed now and how do we tell it’s story?
We will listen to the story as told in Isaiah that the community learned to tell during the exile in Babylon, and listen to the story told in Ramallah by Jean Zaru in the present time.
Through their stories, we expect to begin to find new threads of Truth that speaks to our current condition — the story that we need today. A story that equips, empowers and encourages us.
Agenda for business meeting:
· One of the essential responsibilities of a Quarter is to pay attention to and nurture the spiritual health, experience and ministry in the monthly meetings of the Quarter. Please come prepared to share about the life of your meeting.
· Report from Annual Sessions –
o The concern brought by Falmouth Quarter about supporting LGBTQAI+ communities and especially Transgendered folks.
o Our experience of the bible half hours brought by Kirenia Criado Perez
o Other
· Treasurers report, approving the budget, approving donations.
· Approving the Quaker representative to the Maine Council of Churches.
· Approving the dates and suggesting topics for Quarterly meetings for the coming year.
Falmouth Quarterly Meeting, July 19, 25
Hosted at Wendy Schlotterbeck’s home at 79 Skillings Corner Rd, Auburn, Maine
Present: Fritz Weiss, Portland (clerk), Marian Dalton, Brunswick, Christine Holden, Brunswick, Susan Gilbert, Durham, Sarah Sprogell, Durham, Tom Antonik, Portland, Wendy Schlotterbeck, Durham, Paula Rossvall, Portland, Mimi Marstaller, Durham (recorder), Sue Reilly, Portland, Ann Dodd-Collins, Portland
We opened singing together and sharing songs that we loved; concluding with the old girl scout song “Peace I ask of you O River, Peace peace peace…”
Land acknowledgement
Maine Council of Churches representative. We approved Jessica Eller-Fitze, Ann Dodd-Colins and Petra Doan for a nominating committee with charge to consult with Diane Dicranian, and bring a nomination to the Quarterly October business meeting. The rep will serve a three year term which starts in January 2026. Vassalboro also needs to approve the person at their November meeting.
We approved inviting Leslie Manning to join the committee.
We offered the following advice to the nominating committee:
Support for the LGBTQAI+ community –
We read the minutes from Brunswick (attached) and from Durham (attached) and the letter from Portland (attached). Is there something that we would like the quarter to do?
There was clarity that it is important celebrate the trans folks who are a part of all our communities, and that we will work to advance justice and equality for the LGBTQAI+ community. Our relationship is more than solidarity, it is a relationship of community and family.
We considered several options:
What is possible at Sessions this year? We could ask Sessions to distribute our minute/letter of concern to other quarters so that we can have a discussion of it next year at Sessions.
The clerk shared that the YM Presiding Clerk Rebecca has indicated that she would like Quarters to have an opportunity to report what has been going on in the quarter. He suggested that Falmouth Quarter could ask for time in this section to share the three statements. He also shared his personal opinion that faith communities need to speak strongly & loudly if we are to counter the public statements by Christian figures who are threatening great violence to trans folks.
We approved this preamble to the letters when presented to the NEYM:
“We received with appreciation the minutes in support of our queer community and family from Brunswick and Durham and the letter of concern from Portland, and wish to state the view of Falmouth Quarterly Meeting that as Quakers we unite in celebrating our belief in the diversity of God’s creation. We ask all meetings in NEYM to discern the appropriate actions to be taken in this time of urgency. “
We ask our clerk to share this minute and these documents with the presiding clerk and request time at Sessions to discuss this issue.
Friends approved this preamble and the minute requesting the clerks’ role at Sessions.
Closing worship
Respectfully submitted, Mimi Marstaller
Regarding the matters discussed (materials HERE and minutes HERE) at the called meeting of Falmouth Quarter on May 6, 2025 concerning the scheduling of Annual Sessions and also concerning Israel-Palestine matters, two letters have been received from Northampton Meeting and Mt. Toby Meeting. They are below:
In addition, those interested in reading what New England Yearly Meeting has discussed and minuted in recent years regarding Israel-Palestine please see the materials collected HERE on the NEYM website.
Minutes 5-6-25 Called Meeting
On 5/6/25, Falmouth Quarter gathered by zoom for a called meeting.
Present: Portland: Fritz Weiss (clerk), Ann Dodd-Collins, Paula Rossvall, Jim Grace, Karyl Sylken; Durham: Sarah Sprogell, Leslie Manning, Wendy Schlotterbeck, Mimi Marstaller, Doug Bennett, Kristna Evans, Susan Gilbert; Brunswick: Marian Dalton; Southern Maine: Louise Sandmeyer; Guest and prayer presence: Kathleen Wooten
The clerk reviewed the agenda.
Opening worship and land acknowledgement
The quarter was clear on the following:
2. Falmouth Quarter has received a letter from North East Kingdom Monthly Meeting (NEK), with many links and attachments sharing NEK’s deep concern that it was not right to gather at UMass campus in light of the university’s forceful suppression of an encampment in support of Palestinian rights and in protest of the war in Gaza. The YM was not able to change to location of sessions, consequently NEK has declared a jubilee year and will not participate in NEYM or financially support NEYM for the coming year. NEK welcomed any thoughts we had to share.
We also received a link to the independent review of the university’s actions, and a summary from the presiding clerk of NEYM of the YM response to NEK.
The discussion was serious and wide ranging. The clerk was directed to write a letter to NEK sharing the following observations:
3. The clerk was also directed to write a letter to the presiding clerk in response to the letter we received with the following concerns.
Respectfully submitted, Fritz Weiss, acting clerk.
Falmouth Quarterly Meeting, 27 April 2025, Portland Friends Meeting
Present: Brunswick: Marian Dalton, Christine Holden on zoom; Durham: Leslie Manning on zoom, Sara Sprogell, Dorothy Curtis; Portland: Fritz Weiss (co-clerk), Ann Dodd-Collins (recorder), Andy Grannell; Windham: is having Meeting for Business at this time; Visitor: Kathleen Wooten, Lawrence Meeting.
Opening worship and land acknowledgement, Fritz Weiss
We began our meeting at approximately 1:30 pm.
Fritz noted that several people from Falmouth Quarter are participating in the Journey of Peace and Friendship. He spoke about the walk on Saturday, a cold and rainy day, and the 15-18 people who made the seven mile walk, including seven from Brunswick, Durham, and Portland. The prayer service and feast on Saturday was a time of fellowship, communion, and trust. There was a wonderful sense of community, gathering in a way that is not typical for the quarterly meeting.
Land acknowledgement.
If the land acknowledgement becomes performative it loses its significance.
The land we are on is stolen. Trauma was done to the people and to the land and to the communities, some who are gone forever. That trauma continues to echo and resonate. Acknowledging that is important, but what’s really important is that this is just a small step towards committing to healing what can be healed, repair what can be repaired and being in healthier relationship with our neighbors, the land and ourselves.
State of Society reports
Brunswick could use some help in finding a new space.
Marian needs support in letting go; she has been clerk for 10 years. The new clerk is not going to be one who has the history so it’s going to be different.
Brunswick is doing well; they are looking forward to having an alumni potluck that specifically invites people who still live in the area but no longer come to meeting.
There was concern expressed that the work of one member was not mentioned, which led to a short discussion about people who have a ministry but don’t see it as such.
There was also concern expressed about pushback on the Social Justice Book Project. Planners are aware of the concern and are getting positive support from the school that is the pilot.
One member said we are in a very different and new and unexpected place. We went through a very difficult time and some people are still hurt, but it’s a blessed time for PFM.
Windham values the relationship with Falmouth Quarter. We are holding them in the Light. Windham values visitors. We wondered about ways we could strengthen the relationship and could know each other better.
They are a very small, much older, semi- dormant meeting. Our co-clerks do communicate with Louise.
Ministry reports
We are holding Leslie in the Light. She feels distinctly different calls to be a chaplain vs pastoral ministry and sees this as new territory. Leslie also asked that we hold transgender women and men and their allies in the Light. Leslie’s role as meeting care coordinator has led her to recognize different pastoral care needs.
Craig does not call his work as a ministry but as his work, both professional and volunteer. He had a care committee when he wrote his book, but does not have one now. He does feel supported by his meeting. Durham has continued to test Craig’s sense of calling.
Martha is going to Palestine with Max and Jane Carter this summer. Some of her most important work currently is with her family.
One member commented that the quarter’s denominational endorsement of Elizabeth’s work has borne powerful fruit.
We appreciate Jay’s honesty about how challenging it is to not know and to speak about it.
Sally spends several hours a day online and is fully dedicated to this work.
Maggie is one of three friends with a travel minute to visit Meetings in Maine. She has a clear passion for bringing the sense of community she’s found in Young Friends into the larger community. She has a support committee and is being faithful.
Heather’s ministry is about talking to white people about white supremacy. She is facilitating two small groups focusing on the embodied experience of exploring whiteness and privilege. She has a care committee.
Kathleen Wooten, visiting Friend
Kathleen brought a travel minute which our co-clerk endorsed. She is a member of Lawrence Meeting in Salem Quarter. Salem Quarter has not met for 4 years and Kathleen misses the ability to gather and ask “Who are we and what can we do together that we cannot do alone?” She asked for prayers for the Quarter.
Kathleen recently learned about Emily Provance’s book, Spiritual Gifts, the Beloved Community, and Covenant, and is feeling a nudge to offer a book group with Vassalboro and Falmouth. We encouraged her to consider offering that book group in person for the quarter at Windham meeting and she agreed to explore this possibility.
Quote of the day: “Being faithful can be messy.”
Concrete ways we are working across meeting boundaries
We noted that in the SoS reports and ministry reports we heard of a number of ways in which we are working together as a quarter beyond the scheduled quarterly meetings. These include:
Challenges
The clerk mentioned two specific concerns before the quarter.
Andy Grannell
Andy has been researching Quakers mentioned in Portland newspapers from 1775 on. Did Quakers get into the papers? Yes. At least 10 have made a world of difference. He wants to tell their stories, “Maine Quakers in the News from the Revolution to the Present”. The world needs their message and stories will stick; facts don’t. Andy is close to the end of the research process and hopes to tell both new stories and old stories in a new way.
Announcements
We ended our rich, spirit-filled meeting at approximately 4:15 pm.
Dear Falmouth Quarter Friends
You are invited to a zoom call on 5/6/25 at 7PM to discuss two specific concerns that have recently been forwarded to Falmouth Quarter.
The zoom link is here: zoom link . We have attached two letters we received.
The first from Susan Davies, Clerk of Permanent Board, invites us to attend a Permanent Board Meeting on May 10 in person or on zoom to continue the discernment about how we are called to gather as a yearly meeting – the current form is becoming difficult to sustain. We are also invited to attend a yet to be scheduled gathering this summer before sessions. What do we want to bring to the 5/10 Permanent Board meeting?
The second is a letter sent to us on April 12 from NorthEast Kingdom Monthly Meeting sharing a concern about the decision to have the 2025 sessions at UMass campus in Amherst. The letter was originally sent to the Yearly Meeting in January. How does Falmouth Quarter respond to concerns raised by NE Kingdom?
With Love, Fritz Weiss, Wendy Schlotterbeck, Mimi Marstaller, Falmouth Quarter
Letter from the Permanent Board Clerk regarding Sessions:
Also: Additional materials on Annual Sessions available HERE.
Letter from Northeast Kingdom MM
Additional Material Provided Via E-Mail Prior to the Called Meeting
From Doug Bennett, Durham MM: If we are to discuss the incident at U Mass Amherst, i think it would be useful to have available materials made available by the university as well, including the external review they had conducted. Link: https://www.umass.edu/news/key-issues/war-gaza
From Kathleen Wooten, Lawrence MM: Dear Friends: Phil Veatch (rising clerk of NEYM) shared these thoughts in Fresh Pond’s public newsfeed and it seems okay to share them here (below). I have no official knowledge of anything else but I am aware of how incredibly difficult it is for us to even find any location that can accommodate our needs. I hope we can keep listening for what is called for at this time. I’m also a graduate of UMass Amherst and have some background knowledge of their process in interacting with the community and local police, (having lived there a number of years) and it is very tricky.
“Dear Friends,
If I may add some context to the Midcoast letter. After the Yearly Meeting
staff had done an extensive search for sites that could host our annual
Sessions and found that the Amherst campus of the University of
Massachusetts was the only site this year that could meet the many needs of the gathering
including much improved handicap access, a group of people from Northeast
Kingdom raised the concerns about the treatment of demonstrators the year
before. Noah Merrill, the Yearly Meeting Secretary, took these concerns
seriously and met with Northeast Kingdom. He desired to work with their
concerns and offered many ways to address this problem including: holding
education workshops during Sessions, meeting with the University President
to work on preventing future such actions, meeting with the campus police,
and using the University’s actions as part of our decision making for
future events. What he did not offer was to cancel in-person Sessions for
2025- there was no other viable alternate site at that point. The
Northeast Kingdom was unable to see the benefit of engaging with the
University and working for change. All institutions will, at some point,
do harm – as we Quakers are well aware of from our own history. I do not
believe that disengagement from the world is the only, or often the best,
way to bring about the peaceable kingdom. As you form your understanding
and beliefs about the letter from the Midcoast Friends, I urge you to
consider the power of working together with those we most disagree with.
The University of Massachusetts is not a monolithic entity. There is much
room for engagement to create a better future.
Yours in peace,
Phil”
You are invited to join with Quakers from around Maine for the All Maine Gathering hosted by Vassalboro Quarterly Meeting on Saturday, May 3. It will be held at the South China Community Church, 46 Village Lane, South China, Maine 94358
Program: A Quaker Spin on the Spiral of Active Hope led by Mark Rains
The program for All-Maine Gathering will include opportunities for personal reflection and sharing, leading into small group exploration of Macy and Johnstone’s book and videos for “ACTIVE HOPE: How to face the mess we’re in with unexpected resilience and creative power”, with resources which Friends can take back to their meetings and communities. Brief queries will focus on gratitude, inspiration, concerns, possible action steps, obstacles, and supports. Small groups for lunchtime conversations may emerge to explore four spiraling steps from “experiencing gratitude” and “honoring specific concerns” (climate, exploitation, immigration, democracy, etc.), through ways that Quaker faith and practice (e.g. SPICES) can inform “seeing concerns through new eyes” and “going forth”, as led and supported.
Provisional schedule
8:30 Mugs & Muffins
9:00 Meeting for Worship followed by introductions
10:30 Program
12:00 Lunch – Soup will be provided. Contributions of bread, veggies, fruit & desserts are welcome.
1:30 Worship sharing / continued discussion
2:45 Closing & Clean-up
~ The Vassalboro QM Leadership Team: Mark Rains, Cynthia Harkleroad, Holly Weidner, Janet Hough
UPDATED schedule of the Journey of Peace and Friendship
[NOTE: Durham Friends Meeting will hold its April 2025 Meeting for Business on April 27 at noon.]
Falmouth Quarter is scheduled for April 26th and 27th. On April 26th we will join A Journey of Peace and Friendship: Kindling Moral Courage, Kindness and Connection”. This is an event designed to be an antidote to the fear, division and chaos our communities are experiencing currently: it is being planned by a multi-faith planning group gathered by Sherri Mitchell, Penobscot writer, activist and attorney. Shirley Hager and Andy Burt from Midcoast Friends Meeting are part of the organizing group. Please also see this website for more information: https://www.landpeacefoundation.org/events
Sherri writes: “We are bringing together a multi-faith, cross-cultural group to organize a 7 day processional prayer/unity walk to uplift the dignity and sacredness of every living being. We will begin with a ceremony at the Penobscot Nation Boat Landing on April 22nd (Earth Day), where Wabanaki people will welcome all those who have come to this land seeking refuge, asylum, or simply a better life. We will also honor Mother Earth who holds and nurtures us all.
We will begin our processional following the opening/welcome ceremony with a five mile walk. Each of the following days, we’ll begin and end our day of walking with a prayer, ceremony, or ritual led by one of the faith groups joining the walk. We intend to invite people to join us in those moments of prayer, even if they cannot join the walk. On the 29th, we will arrive in Augusta and hold a collective ceremony, with prayers, songs, and shared vision at the state house.
We will also be reaching out to those with perceived differences and asking them to walk together during the walk, this includes politicians, religious groups, etc., to help connect and humanize one another. Our goal is to uplift all that we hold most dear, we want to celebrate one another, show our care for another, and amplify moral courage, kindness, and connection. “
On Saturday the 26th the day will begin with a prayer circle at 8:30, followed by a 5 mile walk and a midday celebration, multi-faith worship, and feast. Friends are welcome to join the prayer circle, and the walk or just come to the feast and celebration. In the afternoon there will be another 4 mile walk. We will send details of where the procession is, and organize carpools later.
The quarter will also gather Sunday 4/27 afternoon at a meetinghouse to be determined to receive and forward State of Society reports, Memorial Minutes and reports of those with recognized ministries.
All are welcomed and All are needed.
Report from Quarter, 1-25-25 Gathering
On January 25, 2025, Friends from Brunswick, Durham and Portland and one visitor gathered in person at Portland Friends Meeting and on zoom.
Those present shared news of and celebrated our community as meetings and as the community Friends in Southern Maine. We gathered with bagels, coffee and tea, and had lunch together.
The bulk of the morning was an exploration of what is required of us in these times. The facilitators noted that three themes informed the planning of the morning activity. These were i.) that all of us are impacted by what is happening in our country, ii.) that we need each other – that we are stronger together, and iii.) that in considering what is required of us, the language from Micah 6:8 “[What is required is] to do justice, love mercy and walk humbly with God” is more relevant than language of “callings” or “leadings”.
There were moments of discomfort as we named our economic class which is one variable which impacts how we are affected, and moments of celebration as we recognized all the ways we are already doing service. We concluded with an exercise of finding our path by gathering into four groups drawn from an article by Daniel Hunter which had been shared in advance. The groups were “Protecting People”, “Defending Civic Institutions”, “Disrupt and Disobey.”, and “Building Alternatives”.
The full article can be read here: link
Before Lunch Andy Granell shared that in his work for a book about the history of Quakers in Maine he had been reading the collected archives of Falmouth Quarter. There is an almost complete record of the quarter since it’s inception in the 1700’s.
After lunch we regathered to participate in a facilitated Visioning Session to provide our input on the future planning of NEYM Annual Sessions. The invitation was to engage in a conversation about how our Yearly Meeting’s practice of corporate discernment, our relationships with other Quakers, and our use of limited resources can most meaningfully contribute to the spiritual thriving of Friends across New England.”
Using materials provided by the NEYM Sessions Visioning Group and facilitated by Leslie Manning of Durham, a former clerk of the Sessions Committee, and Marian Dalton, Brunswick, the current Yearly Meeting treasurer, those present shared their experiences of sessions, and their hopes and desires going forward. Notes were taken and will be shared with the quarter separately. The notes will also be sent to the NEYM staff to incorporate into their work.
A theme that was present throughout the day was that these times are unprecedented and challenging and will require a deeply faithful response individually and corporately.
Fritz Weiss, Wendy Schlotterbeck, Mimi Marstaller and Leslie Manning
Falmouth Quarterly Meeting will gather on Saturday January 25th at Portland Friends Meeting (1837 Forest Ave., Portland Maine). Friends are invited to arrive for fellowship at 9:00 for a full day together.
When asked: “What do we most need to do to save the world?” Thich Nhat Hanh replied “What we most need to do is to hear within ourselves the sounds of the world crying.”
We invite you to come and share about the life and spirit in your meetings. Our hope is that our entire time together is a time of worship, with laughter, business, connections and fellowship. All are welcome. Here’s the zoom link for those who would like to attend remotely.
The schedule for our time together is:
9:00 arrival, coffee, hot water, bagels and fellowship.
9:30 program – Sharing and exploring, both as individuals and meetings, what these times require. We hope to start by naming what we need, and what are we given. And then move to considering the question: How we, in this time, can do justice, love mercy and walk humbly with Spirit?
11:45 A brief question about the Quarter’s archives.
12:00 lunch & visiting. – There will be a pot of soup. Please bring whatever else you might need or would like to contribute.
1:00 Afternoon Listening and Visioning Session on our yearly meeting’s annual gathering (sessions) Recent years have brought many changes, both internal and external, to the context and circumstances surrounding NEYM Annual Sessions. These include increasing costs, diminished capacity to pay on the part of many Friends and families, reduced and shifting patterns of attendance, increased demand for supportive services and capacities, reductions in volunteer availability, and growing awareness of the need to focus and prioritize limited attention and resources.
In light of all of these changes, the Yearly Meeting’s model of programming, logistics, services, and funding for the event of Annual Sessions is in need of review and reimagining. We will hold a facilitated discussion to inform any future plans.
Falmouth Quarterly Meeting
Hosted by Durham Friends Meeting
26 October 2024
Present:
Durham: Sarah Sprogell, Leslie Manning (treasurer), Martha Sheldon (online), Wendy Schlotterbeck (co-clerk online), Kim Bolshaw
Portland: Fritz Weiss (co-clerk), Ann Dodd-Collins (recorder), Jessica Eller, Paula Rossvall
Windham: Janice Beattie, Julianne Moore, Nancy Doolittle
Guests: Shirley Hager (Windham Friends), Diane Dicranian (Midcoast, representing MCC)
Opening: We opened with a time of open worship, honoring Jan Hoffman whose gifts enriched so many of us and her husband Ken. Both were well known throughout New England Yearly Meeting and beyond. They passed within a week of each other.
Land acknowledgement: We meet on land that is a part of the ancestral homelands of the Wabanaki. We are the beneficiaries of the brutal taking of this land by European Colonists. We acknowledge this and acknowledge that the Wabanaki are still here. We know and grieve that there are many whose names we do not know, whose stories we will not hear and whose sacred songs will not be sung again. We are responsible to the land and to our neighbors to attend to what has been damaged and to listen to what they have to tell us.
Sharing news from each meeting:
Windham: Janice read her report (attached).
Durham: Leslie Manning is the meeting care coordinator.
Portland:
Treasurer’s report (Leslie Manning):
The attached report is amended to reflect PFM’s increased contribution. Leslie reported that we do not hold on to our money. In October we decide how to send our money into our community.
Decisions on expenditures will be made after Diane and Shirley speak.
Maine Council of Churches, (Diane Dicranian, Quaker Representative to the Maine Council of Churches):
Diane’s letter and report are attached. She pointed out that while Maine Quakers support MCC, executive director Jane Field does the work. MCC has committed to supporting Jane full time for three years, but they need financial support from their faith communities to continue that commitment. At the same time New England Yearly Meeting (NEYM) has reduced their contributions to all outside organizations including the state councilsto zero.
Diane also reminded us that she will complete her term with MCC next year. The quarters in Maine will need to appoint a representative next year and MCC would like a Quaker representative from Falmouth Quarter if we can find one.
We APPROVED a Minute of appreciation for Diane for her faithful work on the Maine Council of Churches, especially during the challenges of covid.
Consider approving a Minute from Winthrop Center in support of Shirley Hager and an emerging Wabanaki Elder-in-Residence Program at UMaine. Both Vassalboro Quarter and Falmouth Quarter will be considering this request:
The Minute from Winthrop Center and an update on the Elder-In-Residence proposal are attached.
Shirley spoke about her leading. While working on The Gatherings she had the opportunity to meet with and witness the work of Wabanaki women who became Elders-In-Residence at the University of New Brunswick and Saint Thomas College in Fredericton, NB. At a memorial service for Wayne Newell 2-½ years ago, she talked with his son Chris who said money is great but you can’t buy relationships and it is relationships that keep kids in school.
Shirley feels that the soil for this project had been prepared over years and her conversation with Chris Newall planted the seed. Read more about Shirley’s leading in Winthrop Center’s Minute of Support.
As a quarter we are being asked to send our support for this proposal to NEYM’s Right Relationship Resource Group (RRRG) and to the Legacy Gift Committee. We are also being asked to contribute as individual meetings. Portland Meeting has invited Shirley to bring her proposal the PFM on 11/10. Supporting Native American students is an example of reparations.
Following a time of discussion and comments, we APPROVED our support of the pilot project. Fritz Weiss will send the Winthrop Center minute to NEYM’s RRRG and the Legacy Grant committee.
Treasurer’s Report, part 2
We APPROVED a budget for the coming year which includes these disbursements:
Friends Camp $ 50
Friends School $ 50
Maine Council of Churches $200
College Guild $ 50
Jones Fund (VQM) $100
Nibezun $ 50
Clerks Discretionary $100
$600
The quarter will have a balance of approximately $100. We encourage monthly meetings to consider contributing more to the Quarter.
Confirm dates for coming year: We APPROVED meeting, God willing, on January 25 and April 26. The date for our summer meeting will be determined later. It was also noted that All Maine Gathering will be the first Saturday in May and that Vassalboro is hosting.
January 2025 program: Leslie Manning volunteered to help plan the program. Our co-clerks will find additional people to help with the planning.
Sharing about the Bible Half Hours from annual sessions: Jessica Elder led a rich conversation about NEYM’s Bible Half Hours which were offered by Genna Ulrich of Portland Friends Meeting.
Jessica was not a part of the eldering team helping Genna prepare for the Bible Half Hours, but because she sensed she needed to be open to where she was called during Sessions, she was able to step in when one of Genna’s elders developed covid. Genna came to Quakerism as a young adult. They had offered inspirational vocal ministry and had developed welcoming booklet at Portland Friends, but being called to do the Bible Half Hours was a new experience. Junior High Yearly Meeting changed their schedule to allow kids to attend and they, as well as Young Friends, showed up to support and listen to Genna and reported their experiences in their Epistles, reporting that for the first time they felt they belonged at the Bible Half Hours. It was amazing to feel the body accept and hold their messages.
Each day began with Genna grounding us in our bodies. The theme of seeds and plants and gardening was reflected throughout the messages. Genna’s use of different translations of the Bible, of presenting old stories in a different way made the Bible accessible and human. Attenders felt like they were being invited into understanding the text not just with their heads but with their whole bodies, to explore the passages for themselves rather than being told what they meant.
Jessica closed the conversation by saying how much it felt like a blessing to be invited to hold Genna and the space for the Bible Half Hours. Videos of the Bible Half Hours are available at: https://www.youtube.com/@newenglandquakersneym3058.
Martha Hinshaw Shelton’s Letter and Queries: One of the essential responsibilities of a Quarter is to pay attention to and nurture the spiritual health, experience and ministry in the monthly meetings of the Quarter. Last April Martha Shelden (Durham) submitted a report on her experience as a recorded minister with queries for Friends and Meetings. We set the report aside to engage with more deeply when we had an opportunity.
Martha led into the discussion of her queries by speaking about her reactions to the Bible Half Hours – a powerful recitation, rich, incredible depth, amazing insights into Biblical theology – which she found quite moving. Martha tends to like to encourage people, to foster gifts, and was tempted to do that with Genna although she does not know them. She was struck by Jessica saying Genna wanted to share without ego. As Quakers we tend to focus so much on community and silent expectant waiting that we tend to overthink and ego gets in the way, but that isn’t necessarily bad. Gifts are present with or without ego.
Questions for the Meeting on calling, gifts of the Spirit, vocation, Spiritual journey Ubuntu. I am because of your love. Question for meeting and for self: Whose love brought you to where you are now?
The importance of spiritual mentors, being invited to live into what we are being called to. It’s a chain of people who loved us in our woundedness and saw us as whole when we felt broken. All the ways God shows up in you and you show up in the world.
Notice pivotal moments in your spiritual journey, moments in how you walked with God. What pivotal experiences have you had that have influenced your life to date?
Life experience, ordinary people, family, extraordinary people who touch one’s life in amazing ways. Faith, people, friendships, and chosen activities can be a lifeline no matter what happens.
“You have made known to me the ways of life; you will fill me with joy by your countenance. At your right hand are delights, even to the end.” (Psalms 15:11)
What are your leadings?
A leading can become a way of life. A leading is living with one’s imperfections and trying to be better. Serving as a helper, being useful, building community can lead to a leading.
Leadings are more like an unfolding, a result of responding to need. Something comes across the path and it seems the right thing to do and there is time and space to do it.
Martha responded that she had clearness to come to Ireland. She wanted to be a part of a reconciliation community but that has changed and she’s not sure where she fits now. Sometimes we need to ask the question, “Were my leadings wrong?” At this moment the one clear thing is it’s time to hibernate, to sort her life out.
What fears go in the way? What successes and joys encouraged you along?
In School of the Spirit, many students are doing active deep listening about what God is calling them to next. An early woman Friend resisted her call to ministry for seven years. She wrote, “I knew I was being disobedient”. Fear shows up in an unwillingness to surrender to God’s call. Fear is understandable, but to continue to say No when you’re invited to say Yes is something different.
Where had the Spirit taken you and where is Spirit taking you now?
Sometimes a spiritual journey feels like a sideshow. We may be called to one thing but we’re busy doing another. Walking with the spirit is not necessarily looking straight ahead but at the sides.
It doesn’t seem like following Spirit should be directional but very “tributarial.” As we do our work, Spirit may come to us and we may put those thoughts “in our pocket” to consider later.
How many times do we say Yes because it is expected of us. “Let your yea be yea and your nay be nay.” (Matthew 5:37)
Listen to your inner guide, stay connected.
What music makes your soul soar? When did you smile down to your toes? Who has encouraged you? To do what? How? When?
If you can define what makes your soul soar, what makes you smile, you know what your leading is.
What do others see in you? Does it suit with your own assessment?
Grace/God/Spirit shows up in the least expected places. And whenever it shows up we need to recognize it and be grateful.
Is there a benefit in recognizing the gifts of the Spirit in IYM? Encouragement? Allowing for a person to focus on a leading of the Spirit?
Witnessing leadings at the yearly meeting level is inspirational and gives a profound meaning to and appreciation of the importance of the yearly meeting which can be carried back to monthly meetings.
Ministry as vocation. Defines self. How much is your occupation your identity? Who are you when no longer in a job?
We ended our day with a moment of closing worship, with gratitude for those who are on this journey with us.
Attachments: Report from Windham Friends Meeting
Treasurer’s Report
Letter from Diane Dicranian, Quaker Representative to MCC
Maine Council of Churches Report
Minute of Support for Shirley Hager to VQM and FQM
Update on UMaine Wabanaki Elder-In-Residence Proposal
Attachment, Report from Windham Friends Meeting
FALMOUTH QUARTERLY MEETING – Durham
October 26, 2024
Report from Windham Friends Meeting
Psalm 46:1 says. “God is our refuge and strength – a very present help,” His word is our guidepost at all times and in all circumstances.
Recent considerations in our times of fellowship – in worship, endeavors and through experiences, both as individuals and as a faith community, have included the following perspectives: 1) Looking to God with TRUST… 2) Standing in the assurance of our FAITH,,,3) LIVING by our faith with confidence. We’ve endured many things through time. Our own membership has depleted, but we find support in our greater community and in pure commitment in the hearts and minds of dedicated Believers – giving of their time, effort, treasures, and talents in motivation of faith and trust.
As always, the focus of Windham Friends Meeting for worship is on the awareness of God’s loving care in our lives and that of our fellow beings throughout time. For that we’re grateful and willing to walk in his Light as His children. We, as part of the town community, take delight in participating in the 3rd graders Windham History tours by sharing the Quaker story. Also Windham Friends is very grateful for financial help in the care, repair and upgrades needed for the Meetinghouse from the Obadiah Brown Benevolent Fund this year as well as for those who worked diligently to bring it all to fruition.
In recent weeks we have endured loss in the passing of two beloved and dedicated members, Sandra Wain who departed this life in her 70’s very suddenly and unexpectedly, and Elsie Haskell, having reached age 96 who met her demise with grace and fortitude. God Bless them Both. Our lives and the life of this faith family are a testimony of what God has done for us, and we know He is with us all the way.
Sincerely, Janice Beattie, Pastor Windham Friends Meeting, October 26, 2023
Attachment, Treasurer’s Report
Falmouth Quarter Treasurer’s Report
As of 9/30/24
Opening Balance 10/1/23 Checking 230.00 Savings 516.52 total 746.52
Deposits Brunswick 50
Durham 100
Portland 200
So. ME 50
Windham 50
Restricted 1000 +1250
Transfer 450 (350)
Interest .46
New balance in Savings 266.98
Disbursements
Friends Camp 50
Friends School 50
Peace Teams 100
ME Council 50
College Guild 50
Jones Fund (VQM) 100
Nibezun (Clerks) 50
Brunswick (Clerks) 100
ME Community/Lewiston 100
EQAT (AMG 2023) 100
Restricted (An Iliad) 1000 (1750)
New Balance in checking 80
Balance (combined) 346.98
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Proposed Budget for 2025
Income 450 797
Donations (600 ) 197
Clerks Fund (100) (discretionary) 97
Attachment, Letter from Diane Dicranian, Quaker Representative to Maine Council of Churches
Good morning Friends
I hope this letter finds you well and in good spirits. I’m excited to share with you the latest report on our activities with the Maine Council of Churches (MCC). It’s been quite a journey, and I wanted to give you a heads-up on some of the highlights.
You know, I usually compare congregants because it’s difficult to compare how much we do in the community. But let’s face it, our spirit has no price. We Quakers have always punched above our weight when it comes to making a difference, right?
Now, you might be wondering, “If Quakers do so much, why expand the Executive Director job?” Well, here’s the reason: Our Executive Director, Jane, is on speed dial with the Governor and Maine CDC. She’s one of the few people who could bring 10 major religions together for a prayer service, all thanks to her, and the Council’s reputation.
Speaking of that prayer service, it was televised with a lot of press coverage, a pretty big deal. We managed to get leaders from all seven of our member denominations, plus the Roman Catholic bishop, a representative from Maine’s Jewish community, and a Muslim Imam. Susan Davies represented us in a prayer filled morning that included Quakers with the other religions. Talk about diversity in action.
Other important issues we are involved in are tribal sovereignty, gun safety initiatives, education concerning white nationalism, safe and fair elections, topics of interest to all of us. When there’s a spare minute we’re even expanding our media presence. It’s all in the report, so give it a read when you get a chance.
We, the Maine Council of Churches need financial backing. I know, I know, money isn’t our favorite topic. But think of it this way: a little support can go a long way in amplifying our voice and helping us do even more good in our community.
Falmouth Quarterly Meeting Friends would you go back to your Meetings and recommend an increased donation to the Maine Council of Churches?
Please take a look at the report, and let’s talk about it. Your thoughts and ideas are always welcome. After all, we’re in this together. Looking forward to hearing from you.
Consider asking for an increased donation to better serve Maine’s marginalized communities.
Thank you.
Diane Dicranian, Quaker Representative, Maine Council of Churches “
Attachment, Maine Council of Churches report
Report to Maine Quarterly Meetings on Maine Council of Churches
By Diane Dicranian, Representative to Maine Council of Churches
Introduction
As your representative to the Maine Council of Churches (MCC), I am pleased to present this comprehensive report covering our activities over the past 18 months, with a particular focus on our work with indigenous issues and the involvement of Maine Friends.
Strategic Changes and Unique Position of MCC
Over the past year and a half, MCC has undergone significant shifts in strategy and perspective:
1. Base Development Focus: The board decided to concentrate on developing our base of supporters, aiming to expand our reach and impact.
2. Executive Director Role Expansion: We’ve expanded the Executive Director’s responsibilities to enhance the Council’s capabilities and effectiveness.
3. Cross-Denominational Collaboration: MCC’s nature as a coalition of denominations allows us to facilitate partnerships and conversations across faith communities, a unique strength in our advocacy efforts.
4. Legislative Focus: As well as serving he Governor’s office and may legislators we’ve communicated, educated and involved you in Maine’s legislative process
Maine Friends and Indigenous Rights
Maine Friends have taken a leading role in MCC’s work on indigenous issues:
1. Wabanaki Alliance Coalition: MCC is a member of the Wabanaki Alliance coalition. Andy Burt, a Maine Friend, serves as MCC’s official representative at coalition meetings and on our Public Policy Committee.
2. Close Partnerships: We’ve maintained close working relationships with key figures like John Diffenbacher-Krall, the retiring Executive Director of the Wabanaki Alliance.
Constituent Outreach: Andy Burt has guided MCC’s efforts to assist the Alliance in identifying churches in key districts for constituent meetings with legislators, supporting the push for tribal sovereignty recognition.
3. Educational Initiatives: We’ve hosted Zeke Crofton MacDonald, Tribal Ambassador for the Houlton Band of Maliseets, for trainings and workshops.
Cross-Denominational Efforts on Indigenous Rights
MCC has facilitated important collaborations:
Coordinated meetings between United Methodist Church leadership and John Diffenbacher-Krall.
1. Brought together United Methodist and UCC Maine Conference leaders to build cooperation on indigenous rights advocacy.
2. Our Public Policy Committee serves as a space where Quaker and Episcopal efforts with the Alliance intersect, primarily through Andy Burt and John Hennessy.
Other Key MCC Activities
Lewiston Shooting Commemoration: On October 1, we organized a statewide prayer service for the one-year anniversary of the Lewiston mass shooting. Susan Davies, Clerk of Maine Friends, represented our community at this televised event.
1. Gun Safety Initiative: We’re partnering with the Maine Gun Safety Coalition, including Quaker Rob Levin, on a new referendum initiative for red flag laws in Maine.
2. Maine Prisoner Advocacy Coalition: As a partner organization we are involved in MPAC activities when invited. We often publicize and support their activities, A recent Legacy Grant was obtained by a member of Portland Friends to bring a new telling of “The Illiad” both inside and outside the Maine prison system.
Impact on Quaker Testimonies
MCC’s work aligns closely with several Quaker testimonies:
1. Peace: Our involvement in gun safety initiatives and commemoration services.
2. Equality: Efforts towards tribal sovereignty recognition.
3. Community: Cross-denominational collaborations fostering a broader sense of spiritual community.
4. Integrity: Ensuring Quaker voices are heard in policy discussions and public events.
5. Justice: In many sectors of life in Maine we equip you to fight for those on the margins.
Looking Ahead
As we continue our work, Maine Friends have opportunities to:
1. Further integrate Quaker perspectives into MCC’s policy advocacy work.
2. Expand our role in facilitating cross-denominational cooperation, particularly on indigenous rights.
3. Utilize MCC’s networks to increase awareness and engagement with Quaker-led social justice efforts.
Conclusion
The Maine Council of Churches continues to provide a valuable platform for Maine Friends to engage with other faith communities, amplify our voice on important issues, and live out our testimonies in collaboration with others. Our work with the Wabanaki Alliance coalition and on Indigenous rights is particularly significant, ensuring that Quaker values and perspectives remain an integral part of this crucial work in Maine. Your continued support and engagement with MCC activities are essential as we work towards justice, peace, and equality in our state.
Attachment, Minute of Support for Shirley Hager to VQM and FQM
Minute of Support for Shirley Hager’s Leading Regarding an Indigenous Elder-in-Residence Program at the University of Maine
Winthrop Center Friends, October 6, 2024
In July of this year, Shirley shared background with Winthrop Center Friends about a leading which has been growing over several years. In her experiences with co-creating The Gatherings: Reimagining Indigenous-Settler Relations book, with the Friends Committee on Maine Public Policy, and with Wabanaki peoples, Shirley has witnessed Indigenous students using their college educations to make lasting differences within their communities and indeed within the State of Maine and beyond. She has also been aware, through conversations over the years with Wabanaki individuals, of the many obstacles in the paths of Indigenous students trying to complete their education. She has had opportunities to observe efforts to support Native students staying in school, most particularly Elder-in-Residence programs at the University of New Brunswick and St. Thomas University in Fredericton, New Brunswick. In these programs, students are supported by people of their own culture, Elders who best understand their unique needs as they seek to survive and thrive within a “foreign” (i.e., “white” and “Western”) university culture, and who help them stay connected to their culture while pursuing their education. Experience has also demonstrated that the program (Elder-in- Residence) builds success within the greater university system, fostering mutual trust and understanding cross-culturally, both with other students and with non-Native faculty and staff.
Shirley reached out to the University of Maine Native Studies chair, Darren Ranco, and Matt Mullen, University of Maine Development Office, who agreed about the program’s need and potential, and who expressed excitement about such a program at the University of Maine. They have proposed a three-year pilot program as a “doable” start, with a budget of $30,000 per year, with the hope that such a program might become endowed in the future.
Shirley imagined her leading as strongly in alignment with Quaker values and desired her efforts to be held by her Meeting, Winthrop Center Friends. She asked for our prayerful support as she imagined outreach to the wider Quaker community, envisioning this pilot program to be supported by Friends in Maine. Friends voiced support of Shirley’s leading, and the Meeting was in unity in supporting Shirley to continue to pursue this effort. We now consider her leading as under our care.
Further, at a subsequent special called Meeting for Business on August 11, 2024, Winthrop Center Friends pledged $6,000/year for the next three years, for a total of $18,000, which constitutes 20% of the amount needing to be raised. Individuals in the Meeting pledged funds as well—an additional $3,000 for the first year.
We, as a Meeting, are aware that the program will greatly benefit Indigenous students, enhance the diverse culture within the University system, and, indeed, blesses us with an important opportunity for which we have prayed for clearness; our pledge fulfills our commitment to share our faith, extending beyond our Meeting, to the wider community. We thank Shirley for sharing this opportunity with us, as we continue to hold her and the proposal in the Light.
We ask Vassalboro and Falmouth Quarterly Meetings to consider endorsing this leading, encouraging monthly meetings’ support, and to consider writing a minute of support to be sent to New England Yearly Meeting and to members of the NEYM Legacy Gift Committee and the Right Relationship Resource Group. The aim of this would be to further seek the possibility of funding for this project and to offer it as a potential vehicle for reparations.
Approved, Falmouth Quarter 10/26/24
Attachment, Update on Wabanaki Elder-In-Residence Proposal
UPDATE on UMaine Wabanaki Elder-in-Residence Proposal
September 30, 2024
Shirley met with Darren Ranco of Native Studies at UMaine and Matt Mullen, Assoc. Director of the UMaine Foundation, on Friday, September 27, for an update on fundraising for the Elder-in- Residence program and to share the questions that were raised at VQM’s Fall Gathering after her presentation.
Fundraising:
As of Friday, $12,000 has either been received or pledged for the first year of operation (which would likely begin in Spring Semester of next year). This amount gives Darren confidence to begin planning the program to, at a minimum, commit to salary compensation for one month during the year. The goal is still $30,000 for the first year, which would allow the Elder to be present for a longer period of time, and also provide program funds and the ability to pay travel and perhaps lodging expenses if necessary (depending upon where the Elder lived).
A total of $29,500 has so far been pledged for the full three years of the proposed pilot program, meaning that, beyond the first year, an additional $17,500 has been pledged. This means that we are roughly one-third of the way to the goal of $90,000 for the three years!
Responses to questions raised:
Neither the UMaine Foundation, nor the University, will be taking any of the funds for overhead. This means that every dollar donated will be available for the program.
The proposal, which states that the pilot would be for two months each year, doesn’t mean that it would necessarily be two sequential months full time. The pilot will be a work-in- progress—a chance to see what works well. The structure of the work week will also depend upon the person hired—their schedule, where they live, etc. If the full amount is raised, you can think of it as a two-month equivalent during the year.
How would this position differ from, or add to, what the Wabanaki Center already does? This position would add an additional layer of student support to what currently exists. Especially it creates intergenerational support for students, which is so valuable. Both Darren and Matt mentioned that it could add a synchronicity to the support they provide—an Elder might pick up on needs of a student and be able to refer them to other support in the University or beyond. They also both agreed that the position will serve to strengthen cultural ties for the students and would be a resource for the University as a whole.
Winthrop Center Friends will be bringing a minute to VQM and to FQM at their next meetings, asking for the endorsement of the Quarters (as was suggested at Fall Gathering) and also asking the Quarters to send a minute to NEYM asking for Yearly Meeting support.
Ubuntu – I am because of your Love*
Falmouth Quarter will meet on October 26th from 9:30 – 3 at Durham Friends Meeting
We invite you to come and share about the life and spirit in your meetings. Our hope is that our entire time together is a time of worship, with laughter, business, connections and fellowship. All are welcome.
Please plan on a brown bag lunch.
In the afternoon we will focus on Martha Shelden’s report on her experience as a Friends’ recorded minister and the queries she offers to our meetings.
Love Fritz Weiss & Wendy Schlotterbeck, co-coordinators, Falmouth Quarter
* From FWCC World Plenary this summer
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Materials for nthe October 26, 2024 Falmouth Quarterr can be found here
Agenda October 26th, 2024
10:00 Land acknowledgement: We meet on land that is a part of the ancestral homelands of the Wabanaki. We are the beneficiaries of the brutal taking of this land by European Colonists. We acknowledge this and acknowledge that the Wabanaki are still here. We know and grieve that there are many whose names we do not know, whose stories we will not hear and whose sacred songs will not be sung again. We are responsible to the land and to our neighbors to attend to what has been damaged and to listen to what they have to tell us.
12:00 Lunch
12:30 Martha Shelton’s letter and queries. One of the essential responsibilities of a Quarter is to pay attention to and nurture the spiritual health, experience and ministry in the monthly meetings of the Quarter. Last April Martha Shelden (Durham) submitted a report on her experience as a recorded minister with queries for Friends and Meetings. We set the report aside to engage with more deeply when we had an opportunity. Our plan for the afternoon is to do that.
The queries Martha shared are:
Questions for the Meeting on calling, gifts of the Spirit, vocation, Spiritual journey
3:00 Wrap up, close worship.
Durham Friends folks are invited to Vassalboro Quarterly Meeting’s Fall gathering, Friday and Saturday, Seotember 6&7. The Friday evening session will be via Zoom. The Saturday session will only be in-person at Friends Camp (no Zoom). The full announcement and schedule is below. (Vassalboro is a neighboring Quarterly Meeting; Durham is part of Falmouth Quarterly Meeting.) Note an RSVP is requested if you plan to attend either session.
Friday evening will focus on the spiritual state of member meetings of Vassalboro Quarter. The Saturday program will focus on Friends relations with Native Americans.
Fall Gathering 2024, Sept 6th, 6:30 pm-8pm on Zoom and Sept 7th, 8:30 am- 3pm at Friends Camp, China Maine
“Few are guilty………All are responsible” Rabbi Abram Joshua Heschel
“A sower went out to sow his seed. And as he sowed, some fell by the wayside; and it was trampled down, and the birds of the air devoured it. 6 Some fell on rock; and as soon as it sprang up, it withered away because it lacked moisture. 7 And some fell among thorns, and the thorns sprang up with it and choked it. 8 But others fell on good soil, sprang up, and yielded [a]a crop a hundredfold.” When He had said these things He cried, “He who has ears to hear, let him hear!” Luke 8: 5-8
Greetings , Friends,
Many “seeds” were sown during Yearly Meeting sessions this August. We were asked to have ears to hear so that we may be the “good soil” and yield.
We were also told of some of our Quaker history and involvement in the Indian Boarding Schools in the 1800-1900’s.
Through the deep and personally-grounded messages, we, as a body, discerned the way forward on the heavy issues facing us.
So, for this Fall Gathering, we wanted to hear the voices from Friends in Maine (all of you!) on what is lifting you up? How are you led, and how do you prepare the soil? How do you nourish the seeds of good within and around you?
On Friday evening, we will be hearing highlights from our monthly meeting’s spiritual life, “state of society,” and reflecting on how those “seeds,” from other monthly meetings, find soil in us to start to grow towards the Light.
On Saturday morning, we will be hearing from two Friends. First, Shirley Hager will share how she came to her most recent leading to foster creation of a program of support for first time Wabanaki university students. Then we will hear from Janet Hough and how following her current deep dive into the Friends Indigenous Boarding school’s is changing her. We will have worship following each offering and a chance to reflect and share.
On Saturday afternoon, there will be a choice to have discussion and open sharing about either:
1) diving deeper into what is rising up for us when we hear of historic & present indigenous oppression
or
2) what is rising up in our response to other injustices
Please save the date and spread the word of Fall Gathering , on the weekend after Labor Day, Fri. Sept 6 and Sat.Sept.7th.
Friday, Sept 6th on Zoom from 6:30-8 pm; a link will be sent
Saturday, Sept 7th in-person at Friends Camp (no Zoom) under the tent or in the Aviary, if the weather requires
See next page for more information about hospitality & Saturday’s schedule
Saturday schedule
8:30 am : Fellowship with refreshments and finger foods
9-10 am : Intro and worship sharing on the Parable of the seed and the soil.
10:15-11 am : Shirley Hager: “The Evolution of a Leading: Way Keeps Opening,” followed by worship sharing
11:00 am: Janet Hough will share about her journey exploring NEYM’s involvement in Quaker Indigenous Boarding Schools, followed by worship sharing;
12:00 pm Lunch (soups from Vassalboro MM), veggies, fruit, salads, breads from other attenders
1: 15pm-2:30pm Break into group of choice for sharing
2:30- 3pm Sharing reflections from the day
For those who would like to stay with Vassalboro Friends on Friday or Saturday evenings, hospitality is offered at the contact below.
Please bring a veggie, fruit, salad or bread to offer for lunch. A choice of soups is provided by Vassalboro MM Friends.
A link for Friday eve will be sent the week prior to all on this email list. If you didn’t receive this email directly from Janet, please ask to be added to the list if you wish to receive further correspondence and the link directly.
FMI or hospitality questions…………Holly Weidner weidnerholly@gmail.com or 649-1305
RSVP is appreciated for Friday and Saturday attendance but not required.
Feel free to invite others who you feel may be interested in joining us for this day of sharing and listening.
Falmouth Quarterly Meeting will hold a community gathering on Saturday, June 8, 2024 at 3pm at the Durham Friends Meetinghouse. All are welcome. We will plan family fun, some worship, purposeful connection time and singing.
Potluck- Quaker Feast at 5:30.
Please come for any or all of the day on Saturday- “Sing and rejoice, ye Children of the Day and of the Light” (G Fox)
UPDATE June 2, 2024:
Due to a major broken water pump at Betsy’s cottage in Georgetown, we need to cancel the Family Campout scheduled for next weekend- June 8-9. Instead, we invite Friends to gather at Durham Friends meetinghouse on Saturday only (no planned events on Sunday)
For those interested- come at 10am Gathering for Friends with a Concern for Gospel Ministry with Brian Drayton and Noah Merrill
At 3pm all are welcome to a FQM Quaker Community Gathering at Durham Friends Meetinghouse. We will plan family fun, some worship, purposeful connection time and singing.
Potluck- Quaker Feast at 5:30.
Please come for any or all of the day on Saturday- “Sing and rejoice, ye Children of the Day and of the Light” (G Fox)
Also Falmouth Quarterly Meeting gathering.

[Updated April 10, 2024] How does Truth prosper among us?
Falmouth Quarter will meet on 4/27 from 9:30-2:30 at the Curtis Library in Brunswick. Brunswick Meeting will host us.
How does Truth prosper among us?
Falmouth Quarter will meet on 4/27at the Curtis Library in Brunswick. Brunswick Meeting will host us. We can gather for conversation at 9; the meeting will start at 9:30. We expect to finish before 3:00.
In April we receive any State of Society reports prepared by the meetings in Falmouth Quarter, any Memorial Minutes from the past year and hear reports from those in our Quarter with recognized or named gifts of ministry.
We will also receive two minutes concerning the crises in Gaza – one from Portland and one from Durham and considering endorsing them and forwarding them to the Yearly Meeting.
Please let us know if there are particular concerns that you would like included as we plan for the day.
All are welcome and all are needed.
Love Fritz Weiss and Wendy Schlotterbeck, co-coordinators Falmouth Quarter
At the January 27, 2024 gathering of Falmouth Quarterly Meeting, Leslie Manning was recorded in Ministry. She had been recommended by Durham Friends Meeting. The Quarterly Meeting acted after hearing the report of a visiting committee composed of Maggie Fiori, Fritz Weiss, Kim Bolshaw, and Mia Bella D’Augellia.
Recording of Ministers varies among Yearly Meetings. A useful history of the recording of Ministers among Friends can be found here.
Durham Friends Meeting has four other recorded ministers: James Douglas, Edwin Hinshaw, Martha Hinshaw Sheldon and Carol Marshburn.
UPDATED 24.1.30 Minutes of the session can be found here.
UPDATED 24.1.24 Agenda and Materials for the Quarterly Meeting gathering can be found here
You are invited to attend the Falmouth Quarterly Meeting from 11:30 to 2:45 at Durham Friends Meeting.
We will have a simple Meal available 11:30 to 12:30.
Meeting for Worship with Attention to Business will begin at 12:40 and conclude by 1:25. The agenda and two proposed minutes are at this link.
To attend the business meeting by zoom, use this link: durham meeting zoom link. The password is 1775
We are excited to welcome Brian Drayton, who will lead a program and discussion, entitled “There is a Spirit which I feel… James Naylor’s Last Words” from 1:30 to 2:45.
“There is a spirit which I feel that delights to do no evil, nor to revenge any wrong, but delights to endure all things, in hope to enjoy its own in the end. Its hope is to outlive all wrath and contention, and to weary out all exaltation and cruelty, or whatever is of a nature contrary to itself. It sees to the end of all temptations. As it bears no evil in itself, so it conceives none in thoughts to any other. If it be betrayed, it bears it, for its ground and spring is the mercies and forgiveness of God. Its crown is meekness, its life is everlasting love unfeigned; it takes its kingdom with entreaty and not with contention, and keeps it by lowliness of mind. In God alone it can rejoice, though none else regard it, or can own its life. It is conceived in sorrow, and brought forth without any to pity it, nor doth it murmur at grief and oppression. It never rejoiceth but through sufferings; for with the world’s joy it is murdered. I found it alone, being forsaken. I have fellowship therein with them who lived in dens and desolate places in the earth, who through death obtained this resurrection and eternal holy life.”
An opportunity to stay for the second session of the webinar, Returning to the Land, “Seeing with a Native Eye” from 3:00 to 5:30, a four part program that Peace and Social Committee of Durham Monthly Meeting is offering . Readings for this session are available at this link: returning to the land
EARLIER POSTING:
Falmouth Quarter will meet on Saturday January 27th at Durham Meeting.
The draft schedule follows.
11: 30 gather and simple lunch
12:45 opening worship and brief business meeting
1:30 – 2:45 Program focused on James Naylor’s last statement facilitated by Brian Drayton:
“There is a spirit which I feel that delights to do no evil, nor to revenge any wrong, but delights to endure all things, in hope to enjoy its own in the end. Its hope is to outlive all wrath and contention, and to weary out all exaltation and cruelty, or whatever is of a nature contrary to itself. It sees to the end of all temptations. As it bears no evil in itself, so it conceives none in thoughts to any other. If it be betrayed, it bears it, for its ground and spring is the mercies and forgiveness of God. Its crown is meekness, its life is everlasting love unfeigned; it takes its kingdom with entreaty and not with contention, and keeps it by lowliness of mind. In God alone it can rejoice, though none else regard it, or can own its life. It is conceived in sorrow, and brought forth without any to pity it, nor doth it murmur at grief and oppression. It never rejoiceth but through sufferings; for with the world’s joy it is murdered. I found it alone, being forsaken. I have fellowship therein with them who lived in dens and desolate places in the earth, who through death obtained this resurrection and eternal holy life.”
Those who wish to can stay for the Program hosted by Durham’s Peace and Social Concerns Committee:
3:30-5 pm: “Returning to the Land: Seeing with a Native Eye.”
Dear Sisters and Brothers in Velasco,
This is the week we light the candle for Love and remember the family in the stable in Bethlehem. Then, as now, their homeland was occupied. Then, as now, their children were threatened. And yet I imagine that when Joseph and Mary held their baby, they felt their hearts filled with more love then they could ever have imagined being possible. Spirit holds each of us, rocks each of us, loves each of us with more love than we can possibly imagine. “For unto all of us a child is born, unto all of us …”
With love and great gratitude to share this season with the Iglesia de los Amigos en Velasco.
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Queridas hermanas y hermanos de Velasco,
Esta es la semana en la que encendemos la vela por el Amor y recordamos a la familia en el establo de Belén. Entonces, como ahora, su patria estaba ocupada. Entonces, como ahora, sus hijos fueron amenazados. Y, sin embargo, me imagino que cuando José y María cargaron a su bebé, sintieron que sus corazones se llenaban de más amor del que jamás hubieran imaginado posible. El Espíritu nos sostiene a cada uno de nosotros, nos mece a cada uno de nosotros, nos ama a cada uno de nosotros con más amor del que podamos imaginar. “Porque a todos nosotros nos es nacido un niño, a todos nosotros…”
Con mucho amor y mucha gratitud de compartir esta temporada con la Iglesia de los Amigos en Velasco.
Dear Sisters and Brothers in Velasco,
Our prayers and love to you this third week of Advent. Tomorrow we would light the candle of Joy and remember the joy felt by the shepherds when the angels came to them with the amazing news. One of the last poems published by Wendell Berry (a favorite poet of mine) has these lines:
“He sees the shepherds on their cold hill by night, / the sky flying suddenly open over their heads,/the light of very heaven falling upon them, / the angels descending, slowly as snow, their singing / filling far and wide the dark. “On Earth / peace, good will.” … He thinks of the distance, the hard hungry / journey of a pilgrim … / … towards the almost forgotten / light beyond the polluted river, the blasted mountain, / the killed children, the bombed village,/ beyond and beyond is the shepherd-startling, ever staying light. .. / he sets out”. May we, in these challenging times in Cuba and in Maine remember the shepherd’s joy and journey together towards that light.
With Love
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Queridas hermanas y hermanos de Velasco,
Nuestras oraciones y amor para ustedes en esta tercera semana de Adviento. Mañana estaremos encendiendo la vela de la Alegría y recordando el gozo que sintieron los pastores cuando los ángeles vinieron a ellos con la sorprendente noticia. Uno de los últimos poemas publicados por Wendell Berry (uno de mis poetas favoritos) tiene estas líneas:
“Ve a los pastores en su fría colina por la noche, / el cielo volando repentinamente abierto sobre sus cabezas, / la luz del mismo cielo cayendo sobre ellos, / los ángeles descendiendo, lentamente como la nieve, su canto / llenando a lo largo y ancho la oscuridad. . “En la Tierra / paz, buena voluntad”. … Piensa en la distancia, el duro y hambriento / viaje de un peregrino… / … hacia la casi olvidada / luz más allá del río contaminado, la montaña devastada, / los niños asesinados, la aldea bombardeada,/ más allá y más allá está el pastor- sorprendente, siempre luz. .. / se pone en marcha”. Que nosotros, en estos tiempos difíciles en Cuba y Maine, recordemos la alegría del pastor y caminemos juntos hacia esa luz.
Con amor
Dear Sisters and Brothers in Velasco,
Tomorrow we will light the second candle of Advent – the Candle of Peace. In Maine this is a season of darkness and cold. We will have only 9 hours of sunlight today; there is a little snow on the ground. I imagine Joseph and Mary travelling to Bethlehem through the dark. Today on that road they would be travelling through a war zone. Peace seems to be more of a dream then a promise. And I am reminded that God often speaks to us through our dreams. May we know that we are all travelling on that long road in the same direction with peace in our hearts with the certainty that Spirit is with us and the kingdom is before us.
With Love
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Queridas hermanas y hermanos de Velasco,
Mañana encenderemos la segunda vela de Adviento: la Vela de la Paz. En Maine ésta es una estación de oscuridad y frío. Hoy tendremos sólo 9 horas de luz solar; hay un poco de nieve en el suelo. Me imagino a José y María viajando a Belén en la oscuridad. Hoy por ese camino estarían transitando por una zona de guerra. La paz parece ser más un sueño que una promesa. Y recuerdo que Dios a menudo nos habla a través de nuestros sueños. Que sepamos que todos estamos recorriendo ese largo camino en la misma dirección con paz en el corazón desde la certeza de que el Espíritu está con nosotros y el reino delante de nosotros.
Con Amor
From Falmouth Quarter NEYM to Velasco Friends, Cuba Yerarly Meeting
We sent this Greeting to Velasco Friends today, our hope is to send one each week of Advent.
Dear Sisters and Brothers in Velasco,
Our prayers and love to you this first weekend of Advent. Tomorrow we will light the candle of Hope – remembering Mary’s song where she says that the new life she is bringing into the world will ”lift up the lowly and fill the hungry with good things.” Today our community is witnessing to this hope in two ways. During the day, there is a peace vigil in a store that sells assault rifles proclaiming the vision of our country free of these weapons and the fear that they represent. This evening Portland Meeting will gather for the annual advent celebration in which the children walk a spiral path carrying a candle and lighting their candle in the center, walk back and choose where to place their candle along the path.
In this advent season, as we hope for the light that is already here and wait for the miracle that has already happened, may we each carry our candle of hope and place it where it will illuminate the path.
In Love
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Queridas hermanas y hermanos de Velasco
Nuestras oraciones y amor para ustedes este primer fin de semana de Adviento. Mañana encenderemos la vela de la Esperanza, recordando el canto de María donde dice que la nueva vida que ella trae al mundo “levantará a los humildes y colmará de bienes a los hambrientos”. Hoy nuestra comunidad es testigo de esta esperanza de dos maneras. Durante el día se realiza una vigilia de paz en una tienda que vende rifles de asalto proclamando la visión de nuestro país libre de estas armas y el miedo que representan. Esta tarde, la reunión de Portland se reunirá para la celebración anual de Adviento en la que los niños caminan por un sendero en espiral llevando una vela y encendiendo su vela en el centro, regresan y eligen dónde colocar su vela a lo largo del sendero.
En esta temporada de Adviento, mientras esperamos la luz que ya está aquí y esperamos el milagro que ya sucedió, que cada uno de nosotros lleve nuestra vela de esperanza y la coloque donde ilumine el camino.
En Amor
Portland Friends Meeting invites us to a fellowship potluck and conversation to welcome three traveling Friends on Thursday, September 28, 2023, 4:30 pm
The traveling Friends are Gail Melix (Sandwich MM), Buffy Curtis (NYYM), and Paula Palmer (Intermountain YM). There will be materials about their ministries, and the conversation will be offered by whomever of them has energy to contribute.
This invitation is especially made to Friends from Falmouth Quarter, and therein neighboring meetings. Joiners are welcome to come for part or the entirety, and at any point in the offerings.
The fellowship potluck will be held at the Portland Friends Meeting House, 1837 Forest Ave. For guidelines including health/ Covid details, please scroll down this page to review .
Fyi, for potluck contributors who also will attend the convo, please place dishes downstairs beforehand, if possible.
4pm: Doors open – Beth & Brad
4:30pm – Ministry Conversation (casual): Meeting Room – Beth & Brad
5pm to 6:30pm – Fellowship potluck: Basement – Genna & Mey
6:30pm – Clean-up – Everyone!
All are invited to the October gathering of Falmouth Quarter on October 28th at Windham Friends Meeting.
Love Boldly, Share Deeply
UPDATE (posted October 23, 2023)
Love Boldly, Share Deeply
Falmouth Quarter will meet on October 28th from 9:30 – 2 at Windham Friends Meeting
The schedule for our time together is:
9:30 – Gather
10:00 – Meeting for business: The Agenda will be:
· Receive Treasurer’s report. (treasurers report)
· Approve the 23-34 budget and specify this year’s donations.
· Confirm the dates for 2023-2024 Quarterly meetings.
· Consider what program to bring to the Quarter in January.
· Receive Durham’s recommendation to record Leslie Manning’s gifts in ministry. NEYM Faith and Practice recommends naming several Friends to visit with Leslie and to bring this recommendation back to the quarter.
· Approve nomination of Dennis Redfield and Doug Bennett to the Beacon Hill Friends House Corporation.
· Share news from each meeting.
If you have additional items for the business agenda, please forward them to Fritz Weiss @ rossvall.weiss@gmail.com.
11:30 break, brown bag lunch.
12:30 Afternoon program: Sharing experiences from the 2023 annual sessions of New England Yearly Meeting – especially the two plenaries.
— a plenary with Joseph Bruchac (an Abenaki storyteller) & Jesse Bruchac (an Abenaki language teacher), and
— the Bible half-hours with Emma Condori Mamani, a Bolivian Friend who spoke recently at Durham Friends Meeting.
– A plenary with Anna Fritz (cello) (examples of her ministry are available at: https://annafritz.com/
2:00 Wrap up, closing worship.
ORIGINAL ANNOUNCEMENT
Falmouth Quarter will meet on October 28th from 9:30 – 2 at Windham Friends Meeting
We invite you to come and share about the life and spirit in your meetings. Our hope is that our entire time together is a time of worship, with laughter, business, connections and handcrafts.
Windham meeting is preparing for their annual craft fair and would welcome donations of homemade items, knitting, or crafts for the fair. Those who knit or crochet are encouraged to bring your materials and work on projects while we meet. Windham is not welcoming White Elephant items this year.
Our schedule is:
9:30 – Gather in worship – Singing, connection, perhaps some Juice and coffee and snacks and sharing
10:00 – Meeting for business to approve the budget, approve donations for the year, to confirm the dates for 2023-2024 Quarterly meeting, consider what program we might like to bring to the Quarter in January and to share news from each meeting. If you have additional items for the business agenda, please forward them to Fritz Weiss @ rossvall.weiss@gmail.com.
11:30 break, potluck lunch. There is a stove and microwave to heat up items and an electric tea kettle to heat water.
12:30 Sharing experiences from the 2023 annual sessions of New England Yearly Meeting – especially the two plenaries.
— a plenary with Joseph Bruchac (an Abenaki storyteller) & Jesse Bruchac (an Abenaki language teacher), and
— the Bible half-hours with Emma Condori Mamani, a Bolivian Friend who spoke recently at Durham Friends Meeting.
– A plenary with Anna Fritz (cello) (examples of her ministry are available at: https://annafritz.com/
2:00 Wrap up, close worship.
Questions, ideas, comments or concerns can be forwarded to the co-coordinators of Falmouth Quarter:
Fritz Weiss (rossvall.weiss@gmail.com) and Wendy Schlotterbeck (wendy.schlotterbeck@gmail.com)
Details as they become available and at this website: fwcc.world/events

Durham Friends Meeting and Falmouth Quarterly Meeting invite one and all to a family campout June 10&11, 2023. We will gather on the weekend of June 11-12 at Betsy Meunch’s beach house in Georgetown.
All are invited to come to as much of the weekend as you are able. There is level space for camping looking out on the water, a private beach. We will feast, have a campfire, and play; and we will have our spring meeting for sharing the states of our meetings, and the ministry that is rising among us. Sunday we will worship as a whole community outdoors.
Questions? Rossvall.weiss@gmail.com ; Wendy Schlotterbeck@gmail.com

At the All Maine Gathering on 5-8-23, we invited Friends to share concerns and queries that they hoped to have brought back to Monthly Meetings. If a Monthly Meeting engages with any of these concerns and would like to share reflections, please send your reflections to either Fritz Weiss (rossvall.weiss@gmail.com) or Wendy Schlotterbeck (wendy.schlotterbeck@gmail.com) for FalmouthQuarter, or Carole Beal (carolebeal@gmail.com) and Janet Hough (janet.hough5@gmail.com) for Vassalboro Quarter and we will forward the reflections to all the meetings in Maine.
The following concerns are shared.
Love Fritz Weiss, 23.5.12